Thursday, December 14, 2006
the baby was sick so the aunt didnt go jb yesterday. but i still entered singapore since the bf said he misses me so much. awwwwwww~ there there...*pats shoulder* k lah, the feeling was mutual. *grins* pizza hut and movies. i hope you feel much better bf. the holidays will be over in 3 weeks and then we can see each other as often as you like. muacks.
oh yah, was meaning to blog about this...ex-es. i dont know where people get this misguided notion that ex-es could be friends because lets face it, they cant. in order to break up, probably a lot of shitty things would have transpired between the 2 parties and unfortunately, you cant just forget about the past can you? unless the person has amnesia or some other memory related disease...
but anyway, the point is : stop this nonsense about wanting to be friends because being a friend requires more than just occasional smses and emails and chats online. it requires trust and respect which i am sure, in most cases, were already lost which then explains why the 2 people are no longer in the relationship in the first place. dig? dug? i hope so. i mean, im not saying 2 people should be enemies or something because thats not healthy too.
moral of the story? just be civil to your ex. if you're to pass him/her on the street, a smile and a simple hello-how-are-you-okie-i-have-to-go greeting will suffice. there's no need to go have a cup of coffee to catch up nor is there is a reason to pick up the biggest rock u can find lying around and then hurling it at him/her.
there you go. Lesson 1101 on How to Treat Your Ex.
Posted by YellowElephant at 2:28 PM